INTRODUCTION – Here you’ll be given the blueprint of the journey you’re about to embark on. Don’t worry…I’ll be with you every step of the way. It won’t be easy but it will be attainable as long as you allow me to guide you to freedom land of Your Sexual Success. Just remember, I ain’t new to this Boo, I’m true to it. The Harriet T of Your SexLife is ready to take you there.
MY STORY – I was once like you…sexually frustrated and fed up with it. Here I share my journey with how ashamed and used I would feel after sex and why I decided to become celibate, how long I was celibate, when I made the decision to be celibate no more and why. Get your popcorn. It’s a good story Boo and will inspire you to keep reading to get to you own story of Sexual Liberation and Sexual Success before you’re ever married.
MY WHY – As mentioned before, I realized while helping wives transform their Marriages and SexLives that many of the issues they were having could be almost eliminated if I got to single women before they married. I learned something I’ve been saying for years now, ‘A sexually frustrated single woman often times becomes a sexually frustrated married woman’. You get to read in detail how it was time I help Women create the ‘Ships n SexLives of their dreams while Single.
ON YOUR GROWN – You may be grown in age, but are you grown when it’s time to stand up to opposition of your sexual success? Why do I ask? Because you will face opposition over your sexuality and the sexual success you’re wanting to create as a Single Woman of Faith. There may come a time where your faith will be challenged as this teaching won’t often line up with the teachings many of the faith teach on. Now, you can take it or leave it, but just know there’s a battle for your Sexuality, the main question from this chapter is, will you keep letting others control it or will you be on your grown and stand up for what’s yours in order to get the sexual success you desire?
SEXUAL SUCCESS AS A SINGLE WOMAN – This is the chapter that may sound confusing to you at first because it may sound like I’m endorsing sex before marriage which I’m not. But this is the chapter where I share what sexual success is all about and how to obtain it as a single woman. This does not mean sexual issues won’t arise in marriage, it just means when they do, because of the sexual success you created before marriage, you’ll be able to overcome them because you as the Chooser chose the right man for the job in the sexual success you created before you ever walked down that aisle.
EMBRACING YOUR SEXUALITY – What you don’t embrace, you shun (reject). So if you don’t embrace Your Sexuality, didn’t you know you’re walking around shunning it? So how can you ask a Man anything about Sex when you don’t embrace the very thing necessary for Sex? But that’s about to change all in this chapter. Time to embrace what you’ve shunned for far too long.
OWN YOUR BODY – Your body is owned your parents while underage. Your body belongs to God once you come to Him. When married, your body is owned by your husband for life. So..do you ever own YOUR body? In this chapter we’re going to break down why you’ve allowed so many to own what’s yours and why this must end if you want to get to Sexual Success while single. Because it’s your body or its not, right?
PROTECTING YOUR SEXUALITY, SPACE & SANITY – In this chapter is where protection is broken all the way down so its easily digestible as to why you’ve been having the lack of success you’ve been having in your ‘Ships n Sex. The importance of protecting not only your Sexuality but your space and your sanity is where you’ll find the peace you’ve been needing so that you can now make decisions about your Sexuality from a place of empowerment and peace instead of fear and chaos. By the end of this chapter, you’ll allow no one to come against what’s yours again.
9 THINGS TO ASK HIM – You can easily skip to this chapter to get right to the “9 Things”. That’s your right…but I assure you if you do that, you’ll miss the solid foundation laid for you in previous chapters in order to be able to ask a Man these things with the confidence, the unction and the empowerment necessary to get the answers in which you seek. These 9 things will not mean as much if you have no foundation in which to ask them. Remember, I gave you the blueprint in the intro and I’m your guide. I will lead you here Boo. Just be patient and soak in all previous chapters as you will need them to digest the 9 things that will be based on 9 key things: Psychologically, Financially, Relationally, Healthily, Spiritually, Generationally, Mentally, Emotionally and Intimately.
CONCLUSION/RECAP – Here I conclude all the chapters into one thing just for you…transformation. After a detailed recap, I conclude with the powerful call for you to take action and create what it is you want relationally and sexually. At this point, you’ll be empowered to do just that.
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